8 Perfect Characteristics of The Perfect Lover
(In order of importance)
- I am an aggressive person and I tend to be the dominant person in any relationship. In my friendship with guys, I always end up dictating what to do, where to go, etc etc. And I always get my way with them, through persuasion, coaxing or outright demands. While I enjoyed playing the upper hand with such friends and getting my way, I didn't want a lover I can wrap around my little finger while I flutter my eyelashes. He must have the guts to say NO to me when he knows I'm wrong and not follow blindly.
- In matters of religion and the way of life, I look to my perfect lover to provide the straight course. He must himself be knowledgeble in matters of religion. (More knowledgeable than me at least) and even more importantly he must practise what he knows. I look to my perfect lover to lead me in matters of religion and I want him to be someone my (future) children can emulate.
- Since my father passed away in 1997. Its has been just me and my mom.
Although I have a whole army of consanguine brothers and sisters (same father), at the end of the day I am fully responsible for the welfare & comfort of my mother. And my perfect lover has to understand that and all its implications, ie: I will bring my mother along and she will stay with me whomever I marry and whichever part of the world I stay in. And should I not be earning my own keep in the future, my perfect lover will continue to support my mother.
- I was a pampered kid, being my dad's youngest child and my mom's only one. I have hardly ever been denied my heart's desire. While I do not expect my perfect lover to satisfy my every whim and fancy (although that would be quite perfect too) I don't quite relish a life inferior to the one I have had before I met him.
- My perfect lover would be someone who can discuss with me to a significant depth matters of politics, religion and current events. Being born to a political commentator father, I always have an opinion about everything that goes on in the world. It would be sad if I begin to start a discussion about a current event only to know my partner has no idea what I am talking about and then I will have to give a repeat news telecast.
- My family, - as almost all Arabs are - is a close knit family. We may be miles away physically but we keep in touch constantly and have family gatherings once a month (minimum) And because there are so many of us, there is bound to be a wedding or cukur jambul or birthday or death every other month. My perfect lover has to be someone who is not conscious of crowds and sociable enough to get along with my uncles and aunts. And treat them with respect. And not afraid of playing host when they decide to come visit. Unlike so many young people nowadays who prefer to "live on their own" and not like visitors to their house because of supposed "lack of privacy", my perfect lover must be above all that and love having and being around extended family.
- I have asthma and for a long time when I was younger, I suffered attacks every month. Sleep was difficult as I could not lie down flat and coughs, phlegm and vomit were all my playtime friends. Although its probably genetics, (my sister has asthma too) I suppose a major contributory factor is that my late father was a heavy smoker. I remember endless nights when I would be propped up on my parent's bed with my mother hovering over me and midnight bedsheets changes when I vomitted. Anti-phlegm medication has a tendency to make you vomit the phlegm out. And among the complications my late father suffered was infection of the lungs, most possibly due to his heavy smoking. So I do not want my children to suffer the same fate as I did and I don't want the family to suffer the way my family did when my father was hospitalised. Yes death comes in many forms and at any time and smoke or not you could still be hospitalised and you will still die. But let's make sure we can rule out smoking as one of the causes.
- I think I mentioned this before. I was pretty much brought up as an only child. I never had to share, always had 100% complete attention and am very used to getting things done my way. While life has given me a few knocks, I think I am mostly protected by life's harsher deals. A perfect lover, for me, is one who understands the background I come from and while encouraging me to come out of my protected shell and showing me how to, do not penalise me for acting and behaving in the peculiar ways that I do. And occasionally, pampers me the way I have been so used to.
Alhamdulillah I have found in My Don someone who fulfils all 8 requirements and more. He is everything I could ever ask for in a life partner. (minus 10 points for that sheesha he bought recently) And I hope I am the same for him. Maybe must make him do this tag then see what he says.
8 Perfect People To Do This tag
hhmm.....
LYNN
LIZANOOR
NANIZ
MAYA
AYONG
MISS JAYZ
13 comments:
finally... the tag's here.
wah! you not happy with me izit? come ah... meet me after work! =P
Habis!! Die already! Do also salah .. don't do also salah. *cowers in fear * sembunyi bawah meja*
Hey there...!! Thanks for tagging me.
*senyum*
*tangan tarok dalam kocek... maintain senyum*
*keluarkan racun dalam botol then tuang dalam cawan Puan Shsuya*
Ah... minum lah air nie. Haus kan? Sila lah minum... silakan.
*maintain senyum*
Hey there...!! Thanks for tagging me. (pinjam dialogue ayong)
Buat susah ajer tagging tagging. Air sejuk jer dah boleh per. *tangan lambai lambai macam makcik kepoh*
Jalan dulu lah yer... *jalan terkedek kedek tinggalkan blog shsuya*
*jalan terkedek kedek tinggalkan blog shsuya*
Ah... baik-baik jalan. Tengok betul-betul rumput ada lobang ke tak. Nie kali kalau jatuh gerenti diet strictly liquid food. Tu pun kes suap masok hidung punya. Kira rabak abis ah. *tunduk step one-minute silence*
great! i swore i was praying hard not to be tagged. not hard enough! urrrgghhhh....
HELP!!! I think I need armed bodyguards.
Naniz: Actually I tak tahu sape nak tag. I tahu kalau tag org2 yg ni sume akan mengancam nyawa I so i tag lah u. I know u like doing such stuff. hehe
from today onwards I vow to drink only water that I bring from home and to look down at every single step I take and always look behind my shoulder for Ayong & Lynn.
If anything should happen to me, please give my collection of scabs and kudis to Ayong for rememberance and my collection of dandruff collected over the years to Lynn. May they remember me always.
Haha...no way! since when I said I like doing it. Give me time!
Lisa, u very violent u...
you call that violence? alamak...
*rolls up sleeves and grabs dough rolling pin*
what do u call this then?
OH NO!!! *runs away and promise never to tag anybody ever again* *EVER!!!*
yes, shsuya! good choice...mcm inviting trouble! takut aku...i better do it fast. hehe
6 org pun da kena death threat kalau 8 mampus tak leh keluar rumah agaknye .....
patrizio buanne concert tu u nak review eh .....? kita kasi u gambar of the hankie I held while I drooled during his concert boleh??? Atau u nak I show u the actual hankie...????
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